One of our primary aims is to provide support for all those affected by parental alienation.

Parental alienation not only has detrimental affects on the mental health of affected children, but also on the targeted parents, step-parents and grandparents. In fact all too often the whole extended family of the targeted parent is also alienated from the children too.

A targeted family member, be a parent, grandparent, aunt or uncle who has been alienated against a child will experience feelings of grief and loss.

First of all, realise that you are not alone. There are an incalculable number of alienated family members out there.

Amongst our team are parents affected by parental alienation and amongst them, qualified mental health professionals.*

As a movement our aim is to provide support and/or advice in a number of ways:

Parental Alienation Reconciliation Service

We are pleased to announce that we have now added a broader range of professionals to our advisory team who can provide deeper and more extensive legal, coaching and reconciliation support, in line with our core principles. These new members of our team now make up our Parental Alienation Reconciliation Service. We will gladly refer alienated parents, grandparents, step-parents and whoever needs practical support. Please contact us here for full details.


We have a Peace Not Pas Support Group on Facebook here. This is a closed group where people can post in private.

Contributory Writers

Anyone is welcome to contribute to our blog. Many people find that writing about battling and coping with parental alienation empowering and cathartic. See here for full details.

Apps Download Page

We have collated a number of apps that some people may find useful in managing their anxiety and depression. Our Apps Download Page can be found here.

Our Blog

Please read our blog here, to realise you are not alone. The majority of our posts are written by our team. These posts are a collection of personal experiences and evidence based arguments for reform.


See here for details of how to contact us directly via email.

[*Any and all advice given on this website and all other connected outlets of the named brand is given in good faith as experience-based and professional opinion or comment only. ‘Peace Not Pas’ accepts no liability nor responsibility for the use or misuse of any information or views given or shared via any of its outlets.]

Some may find the following organisations helpful:

Anxiety UK (08444 775 774) National charity established in 1970 to provide support and services to those suffering from all anxiety disorders, obsessive compulsive disorder, generalised anxiety disorder and panic attacks.

Breathing Space (0800 83 85 87) Breathing Space is a free, confidential phone line you can call when you’re feeling down.

Bullying UK is a website for both children and adults affected by bullying

Childline (0800 1111) runs a helpline for children and young people in the UK. Calls are free and the number won’t show up on your phone bill.

Depression Alliance is a charity for people with depression. Although it doesn’t have a helpline, it does however offer a wide range of useful resources and links to other relevant information.

NSPCC helpline (0808 800 5000), if you are worried about a child. The NSPCC is the UK’s leading children’s charity.

PAPYRUS (0800 068 41 41) is a voluntary organisation supporting teenagers and young adults who are feeling suicidal.

Samaritans (116 123) operates a 24-hour service available every day of the year. If you prefer to email, you can at

Please Note:  We will gladly refer readers to true professionals who add value, deliver results and operate in line with our core principles. Should you wish us to refer you to an appropriate professional please contact us here.

We are also more than happy to feature quality content by writers; any wish to remain anonymous will be respected, as in the case of the Dad above.

So if you align with our vision and ethos, have someone to recommend, are someone we would recommend or have something to say on the subject of shared parenting and parent equality in either a personal or professional capacity and would like a platform to have your say or contribute in some way to our cause, please contact us.

The Peace Not Pas Team