Parental Alienation: Is the continual spread of this abuse caused by organisation culture?

It is widely recognised that one of the factors contributing towards the fast-spreading social plague that is parental alienation, is the refusal of the reactionary institutions allegedly set up to defend our liberties and promote justice for all citizens to even recognise the term, let alone the resultant symptoms and their impact on targeted parents … Continue reading Parental Alienation: Is the continual spread of this abuse caused by organisation culture?

The shadow on the wall – Interview with a self-confessed (but reformed) parent alienator.

You've heard the phrase "it takes two to tango?" Well parent alienation requires an antagonist and an antagonised, a targeter and a target and a resident parent and a non-resident, in that order. While there are a few exceptions to the rule, because parent alienation is the act of one parent turning the children against … Continue reading The shadow on the wall – Interview with a self-confessed (but reformed) parent alienator.

Doublethink, doublespeak, doubledumb

Doublespeak is a term invented by George Orwell in his seminal work 1984 which describes a dystopian world in which a totalitarian state partially controls its subjects through the use of language. Semantics is a rather academic term relating to language,  the relationship between words and how they are applied to generate understanding or make us … Continue reading Doublethink, doublespeak, doubledumb

PAS, counter-parenting & the malicious in-law

One of the common tactics of resident parents who set out to alienate the non-resident parent is counter-parenting, This is typified by constantly contradicting or deliberately doing the opposite to the other parent. It undermines them and plays a percentages game with the childrens' psychology. It is based on the following logic "I spend most … Continue reading PAS, counter-parenting & the malicious in-law

Parental Alienation: Why PAS is a ridiculous revenge

There are people who believe that estranged parents who claim to suffer as a consequence of being deliberately separated from their children by the other parent, are pathetic. Well read this and judge for yourself. It isn't until you experience the life-affirming joy of having a child that you understand the overwhelming sense of responsibility, … Continue reading Parental Alienation: Why PAS is a ridiculous revenge

Mission 1. Debate: What is Shared Parenting?

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Halloween, Parental Alienaton and Trick or Treating

Halloween is just another seasonal celebration missed by those of us that are alienated from our children. For those readers unfamiliar with the term parental alienation please see here. I vividly remember helping my children each year carve out the Halloween pumpkins to be placed outside the house. I also remember every evening after nightfall … Continue reading Halloween, Parental Alienaton and Trick or Treating

Your Kids Don’t Need a Martyr….They Need YOU!

As we enter the traditional remembrance season during which those who sacrificed themselves for the "greater good" are recognised, it is worth reflecting that men have been programmed for self-sacrifice since, well forever. They instinctively sleep by the bedroom door, allegedly hard wired to be the first reactor, defender, first victim should something nasty invade the … Continue reading Your Kids Don’t Need a Martyr….They Need YOU!

Father and Son

"It's not time to make a change, just relax, take it easy, you're still young, that's your fault, there's so much you have to know." The opening lines from the Cat Stevens track Father and Son. I have always loved and admired this song, particularly the lyrics. Such poignant and touching lyrics easily evoking loving … Continue reading Father and Son

Roles Vs Labels

Recently I had the pleasure of guest writing for Men Tell Health which is an organisation that aids and supports men that are affected by mental health. As they state on their website if you're not a man or don't suffer with mental health issues that doesn't mean you're not welcome. Absolutely not. Maybe you're a … Continue reading Roles Vs Labels